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How to change someone's opinion in conversation

Facts and information do not convince people. Use these method's instead


  1. Focus on the goal. Talk about why you hold your opinion instead of what it is.

  2. Relate to the person by agreeing on another topic or find a group you are both a part of.

  3. Maintain a friendly manner. Do not react if they assume a hostile tone and do not aggravate or criticise them.

  4. Admit and apologise when you are wrong and keep a good reputation.

  5. Show sympathy and acknowledge their perspective of the topic. e.g "if I were in your position, I would feel similar."

  6. Use a passive voice e.g the window was left open instead of you did not close the window.

  7. Appeal to a noble motive.

  8. Give a reason by using 'because'

  9. Never say 'but'. Say 'and' instead.

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