Cross and disrespect boundaries. They will say and do whatever they want to you or behind your back.
Deflection and evasion. To avoid answering questions or being caught in a lie. It is an attempt to change the topic and redirect attention.
Amplify failure and ignore your success. They belittle you so that they can be the centre of attention.
Focus on your negative emotions rather than their behaviour that aroused your emotions
Shame you until you feel worthless and thereby subdue you into submission
Emphasise your lack of knowledge or maturity to lower your rank in the social hierarchy.
Rationalise their behaviour regardless.
Attempt to turn others against you or you against others.
Disguise their abuse as helpful advice or solutions so that you believe they want to help you.
Falsely accuse you of being the abuser in response to your accusation. They play the victim.
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